I always wondered even when im typing this what makes us look forward in our lives or cherish the memories in our past…….

I might be judged by writing this blog because I still don’t think I live a life filled with love. Everytime anyone says you are living a awesome life I feel I can love more and fill my life with more and more love while I live this life more and more every single second….. So let me try talking about these three L’s.

1. Live

If you ask me why Live first ? I have no idea.

Living is very complicated everyone thinks whatever you do in life is living…. but are we really living ?

We do a simple compromise in everything we do, talk or even buy. What is the point of this living… when you really can’t understand. Whenever I’m travelling solo with just a backpack and no desitination but just a feeling of living a day in a place where I have no clue who is who and what they are expecting from me or me having any expectations from any one whoever I meet, I feel I’m living a day which is exciting. While I write these lines I feel am i being lonely ? What is that I’m wanting to do ? and whenever these questions pop in my head I just feel I just want to live through every shade of life. Because there is no point ending every day with a differnt compromise, just be prepared to color every day with a differnt shade. Remember Skepticism, perceptions, Expectations are not shades.

Before I close this topic the feeling of Living is only when you live thoroug the little things…. To start experiencing it, just focus on little things in your every living day, a small gesture which brings smile, an expression of gratitude, appreciation, happiness to another living being which is not YOU.

My quote for all of you “Start Living Unique”

2. Life

I start this one with a smile…. Because I have been through everything in this life… :D.

As if I know whatever I have in store. Can we just pick a cart in this life supermarket and start selecting all the things we want and then fill our life with only these which we select ? But are we really prepared for any result for all our decisions ? NOWAY no one is ever prpeared for whatever happens in this life, we just live through it and are in continious learning mode on dealing with it. When someone can’t deal with it there is a society which thinks they are educated enough to paint their opinions with words which hurt people, Yes paint me presumtious because you start relating to your life when you read something like this and compare it your every day… but you also forget that you feel that you should do something like what your friends do or whatever you see on social media, movies, stories you read, listen to stories your hear…. like travel more, have a little better salary, a car, a house etc…. because this list will go on and on as what we don’t have is more attractive than what we have.

Life is just as beautiful as it can get but the control on what life is about is in your hands, your choices, your feelings, your decisions…. but be prepared because life will give us surprises just be preapred to be surprised and not shocked becuase the more complicated you think it is…. you will be pulled into an unknown place like an bermuda triangle.

The socitey is something which we have created in this life, we make the choices in our life, we get whatever we want but we also should accept and embrance the results to each and every action.

So now… if you did expect me to give you the secret code to deal with life then you are wrong, the answer is YOU…. because the joke is on both of us if you think I started this with the intention of solution its actually the idea of expression. I did confuse you enough because I have no clue how to deal with Life. But I’m slowly learning to “Live Life”.

3. Love

What do I write here ? Everyone knows everyting about this topic right ? Is this a topic ? Is a friend who listens to you talk when you are sitting in a group of friends with your Uncle Jack is Love ?

Love is a heavy companian, remember this because it can not be anything else. Lot of us in this society categorize everything related to love with something or the other. Either it can be A relationship with a name…. Girfriend, Friend, Spouse, Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, Daughter etc. the list can go on…. but can we really tie down love to a relationship ? in my view… the more you paint your love with a relationship the more you are limiting the ability to love. There are some highly educated people in our society who link Love to infactuation, attraction, sex etc….

If your love is limitless you will never feel the need to be loved ever….. because your ability to love is infinite and not finite.

The day you realize your ability to Love then the world will look beautiful with rainbow colors…. so “Live, Life and Love”

Living life one day at a time and learning to love,

K.C.